Many people love holidays, when it is accepted not only to give gifts, but also to receive them. The very act of giving is the promise of wishes, spiritual energy and power from one person to another, therefore the objects enclosing this promise must be suitable. For example, no one would give a coffin wreath or crutch, a toilet brush, a black cat or nails for a holiday — people associate such objects with unpleasant emotions, pain or disgust. But at the same time, we sincerely believe that a branded watch or an elite collection of knives is a great gift for a loved one. The problem is that we do not have the necessary information about these things, so we can inadvertently transmit negative energy through them and even provoke unpleasant events in the family of celebrants.
We will give an example of 10 things that in some nations, and in our ancestors were considered forbidden to donate
If earlier in the era of knights and beautiful ladies, a beautifully embroidered handkerchief with initials was really an important symbol,now it is merely a hygienic for wiping the nose during a cold. Also, many have a handkerchief associated with unpleasant and painful emotions, since they literally hint "you can cry and wipe myself off." It is believed that with the transfer of a handkerchief as a gift, a person receives problems and troubles, from which he will still pay. Well and, of course, scarves are invariable attributes of the funeral services, so people of different nationalities will not appreciate this gift, and in some cases unfriendly push you out of their home. But what to do if you have already given it, because to refuse is ugly? You can symbolically pay off the gift, then wash and iron it by reading out the prayers. Others advise you to burn an unwanted gift.
Time never stands still and goes away, symbolizing the act of aging, fading, the feeling of the irretrievable loss of something valuable. The clock is an attribute that constantly shows this very “leakage” of time, literally counting the days until the person's death. At least that's what they think in Asian countries. There is also an opinion that donating watches is a wish to a loved one of the troubles and quarrels in his life.It does not matter if you give a desk clock, a wrist watch or the famous e-watch. If a similar gift was brought to you, then we recommend you immediately pay off. Do not forget to change the batteries in the donated watches in time and repair them, because the “dead” time in the home is a bad sign.
8. Empty Wallet
About this bad omen heard many people. Still, giving an empty wallet or any other container, be it a bag, a box, etc., is simply ugly, because in the future it is assumed that this item is full. Therefore, the wallet must be given with the wish of financial profit and capital accumulation, the contribution to which you make a symbolic note or coin inside. Then the wallet automatically turns from a “bankruptcy hotbed” into a “battery of funds”. If the donor did not guess to put the money in the wallet, then pay off the gift for a symbolic coin.
All sincerely believe that books are a wealth of knowledge, therefore they make a person smarter, wiser, more read. Parents constantly donate books to young children, managers motivate colleagues with useful reading material, and in elite circles a rare rare edition is a worthy gift. But in some countries the attitude to the printed product is completely different.For example, it cannot be given to a married couple. It is believed that the book, adopted as a gift, increases the risk of betrayal in the family. These are the strange features were seen for a gift.
6. Medical devices and items related to diseases
Giving something like this is at least a bad tone, because once again you remind a person of his health problems and sores. Looking at the object, he will not remember you with gratitude, happiness and fun, because associations with medical objects - this is a malaise and unpleasant symptoms. If caring relatives sincerely believe that an expensive blood pressure monitor, corrective corset or multivitamin package is the most necessary and desired gift for you, then we will not dissuade them. Just answer with a small money to “pay off” from the unpleasant consequences of this gift.
5. Piercing items
Sharp, piercing and cutting objects must be handled with care - they were called “cold weapons” for a reason, and several criminal articles were assigned to unfair use. Among other things, all gifts with a point attract negative energy, symbolizing pain, injuries, injuries and even death. Nevertheless, in our life a good expensive set of knives is a welcome gift for many.Taking it, be sure to pay off. But scissors, according to legends, shorten or reshape life, so some are recommended to get rid of such a gift or refuse.
In our country, donating money is a common way out of a situation where you do not know what, to whom and in what financial range to donate. Moreover, such a gift is practical - a person will not receive another trinket or “dust collector”, an unnecessary or repetitive item in the house, and will spend money to acquire the desired gift or emotion. Nevertheless, in some countries it is believed that the donated bills negatively affect the life of the donor himself - he allegedly gives the other person not only blood money, but also his own well-being.
Luxurious wedding utensils for young people - this is almost a mandatory gift from loved ones or relatives. However, ancient superstitions say that the dishes cannot be given empty (logical, because it is also a container that must be filled). It is believed that an empty service will attract lack of money and failure to celebrate home. Put a decorative element, a sweet treat or a coin in advance in a bowl or tureen, which will bring happiness to the house and make the use of dishes more enjoyable.
The mirror has always been considered a mystical attribute, as it allows a person to “peer into himself”. It is also assumed that a mirror, if mistreated, takes away the beauty, youth and energy of a person. This is especially true of vintage rarities, which allegedly can sharpen the soul of the previous owner. If the mirror after the donation is also broken, then there will be trouble in this family, or loneliness will settle in it for 7 years. Esoteric women are advised not to accept such a gift or to throw it away immediately after donation, but carefully, without damaging.
Precious stones and metals are a magnificent gift for a person who is close to you or a person you like, especially when you know his taste preferences, attitude to certain products, physical and astrological compatibility with them. Some stones cannot be given or put on for certain occasions. For example, pearls always symbolize tears and misfortunes, so the bride does not wear a set of natural stones on the wedding day. And according to some legends, pearls symbolize the experiences of orphans and widows.
Of course, such reasoning borders on mysticism, superstition, or popular omens.There are no scientific statistics and facts that would confirm the impact of gifts on people's life circumstances. Sometimes there are annoying coincidences, and on another occasion, a penknife given in time can save a person’s life.