10 things that people most often regret
If we live in regret for the past, this is how we hang in it all the time, blocking our path to the present and the future. Regretting past experiences or events, we miss the moment here and now! Skip moments of joy, pleasure and happiness.
I lived not for myself, but for others
It is very important to try to realize at least some of your basic desires in your life journey. From the moment you lose your health, it is already too late to do something. Health brings the freedom that very few people understand until they lose it.
I worked too much
By simplifying your lifestyle, you can reduce the income requirements that you think you need. By creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities.
I hid my feelings
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to maintain certain relationships with others.As a result, they agreed to a mediocre existence and never became the way they wanted to see themselves. The emergence of many diseases was associated with the experienced feelings of bitterness and resentment.
I did not maintain relationships with friends
Many were so immersed in their own lives that they let their friendship pass them by for many years. There were many deep regrets that their friendship was not given so much time and effort that this friendship deserved.
I did not allow myself to be happy
Many did not fully understand that their happiness was a matter of choice. They were subject to habits and established ideas. They were held captive by the “comfort” of their habitual way of life. Because of the fear of change, they pretended to others and to themselves that they were content with their lives.
I have long avoided the birth of children
Quite often, many people postpone the birth of children in order to have time to “earn”, “live for themselves,” etc. And the desire and awareness to have children can come quite late, when they are already physically unable to give birth. Of course, the child can always be adopted.But first you should think about the birth of your own child.
I was hiding from problems
Problems need to be addressed as they arise. Otherwise, they grow like a snowball, and turn into a very heavy load that makes life difficult.
I could not use my chance in life
Many also understand that a single chance used on time can change their whole life. But they are afraid of change the most. Therefore, even if a person says that he wants not to miss his chance, he will subconsciously do everything to make it happen.
It turns out a strange thing when a person seeks to make his life predictable, understandable and uncomplicated, but at the same time dreams about how to use his chance for something better. Just stability gives us a foundation in life, and a chance plunges into a new situation. A person is simply afraid of not being able to cope with it and make mistakes.
I offended those who love me
It is always very easy to offend. And to earn forgiveness is incredibly difficult. In addition, your relationship will never be the same. With offense, you push away from yourself those who are willing to sacrifice the latter for the sake of your well-being.You lose more than just people. You lose love and support.
I paid little attention to my children
Actually, as psychologists say, various family misunderstandings begin, which subsequently develop into conflicts. But everyone knows: children need our constant, not seasonal, festive, love. Even if we really cannot find a compromise harmony between work and a child, we still try not to leave the baby for a long time without our warmth, we find at least a few free hours every day to spend with the child. With what joy the children are waiting for this, because for the entire long day without you they have so much important news and events for them that I so want to share with loved ones: parents.